In Tomb Lingchen 's eyes, his love affair with Fei Chen was unusual. At least in China, they could not follow formal procedures to obtain legal support. In the eyes of many people, they did not get the support of public order and good customs. Although Tomb Lingchen was not so well - behaved , he never thought that they would have to go through the process of "meeting parents" and "getting engaged" like ordinary couples. They were two men, so how could they have to go through the ...