Right now, Ray was sobbing all over the internet, claiming that he only started looking for ways to make money so Aurora could stay in school. He insisted he didn't choose to gamble and rack up debt on purpose. The drinking? That was just because life had been tough.

As for hitting and yelling at Aurora when he was drunk—he said that wasn't something he meant to do either. Claimed she didn't want to study at the time, and he just lost his temper.

What really ...