I held my phone for a long time, looking at the message, unsure if I should thank her or not. But it was too awkward!

And I realized I had no idea when I added this person. I clicked on the profile and found out it was a guy, and he hadn't posted anything, just a plain background—no information to discern. I didn't reply and just deleted the chat. I reassured myself that he was just a stranger—he didn't know who I am, who my husband is, and you didn't mention any names.

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