I scoffed, "That's none of your business. I'm definitely getting this divorce."

My husband was reluctant, saying dealing with the house would be too much trouble and not look good.

I told him I had evidence of his affair, and he could either agree to an amicable divorce now or we could have an ugly, public split.

My husband has always cared about appearances. Hearing this, he got angry but had to agree.

So, I divorced my ...