"Ian is truly a wonderful man. He cooks for me every day, buys me flowers on special occasions, and always thinks of me when he's shopping - bringing home tons of thoughtful gifts. He never loses his temper with me. I just can't understand how his ex-wife could cheat on and hurt such an amazing man."

My comments came across as sincere and innocent, while subtly highlighting how inhuman his ex-wife's actions were.

The situation quickly escalated into a gender war, ...