Danny was the reason why I had been hesitant. His birth was really tough and I cherished him deeply. To be a good mom, I read tons of parenting books. In the world of any young child, the father and mother would be everything. How would he feel if his world suddenly split in two because of issues that he had nothing to do with?

Adults wouldn't be able to imagine how devastating it could be for a child.

That's why I kept putting off my decision with the hope that ...