I can’t say I blame him then, that he wanted to screw her. He clearly misses that part of our relationship, the more adventurous sex, and I’ll be willing to revisit it when we start to get physical again. Right now, we seem to be plodding along and he hasn’t tried to initiate any sort of sex at all. It’s like he’s here, but he’s not, and even though I’m the one who has the right to be upset and angry, I feel like I’m walking on eggshells with him instead.

He hasn’t ...