"What if it's causing me so much pain?" I asked and dad smiled again. 

　　"You have to have the ability to bear the pain. You have to be strong and brave. Nothing should scare you and nothing should be able to break you completely. even if the pain breaks you completely there will always be small pieces left and you can mend yourself again by collecting those pieces. We'll have challenges and difficulties, some difficulties will be so much that we might think that we have ...