Instead of accepting, I spend a few minutes having a look at his profile, checking his relationship status and going through his profile photos before unwillingly accepting him. I ignore the voice in my head that says I'm Facebook stalking him. I don't want to be rude to a new colleague even if it is him. Within seconds of accepting his friend request I receive an instant message from him.

Andrew: I knew you couldn't stay away : )

I shouldn't reply but I do ...