So, I may or may not have spent the entire nine days my husband was away mapping out a plan on how to get him to pay more attention to me and me alone and guess what amazing plan I came up with? Nothing.

It wasn’t that I didn’t come up with anything. In fact, it was quite the opposite. I had come up with a billion plans, and I was starting to look like a federal agent about to carry out an important task, so why did I have nothing in the end? It was because I liked none of the plans.

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