I’m five minutes early as I exit my Miata at the meeting location in the Valley West Mall parking lot. I investigated the Miata club online, and now that I am here, I’m rethinking this event. I hoped I’d meet some new friends; I had no idea exactly how big this club was.

I walk past several cars toward the large group gathered nearby.

“Welcome,” a female voice greets. “You must be Sylvie.”

I nod, shaking her hand. I’m introduced to several couples, waving at ...