A tradition? Who in the hell comes up with this? Why would anyone want to hold off from having sex with their mate?

"That's fucked up". The words were out before I could stop them. "He would rather I suffer in pain so he can show everyone he resisted the urge?". I was speechless. Did no one ever think to ask the female how they would feel in this situation?

"I didn't think he would participate Leah. You both have been waiting so long to complete your bond. If I'm honest I wasn't expecting, you ...