I don’t have time to dwell on the my amazing experience with Kellen. It’s obvious he and I have a lot to build on and I want to repeat what we did together, but Jake has a chess tournament this week and he’s perseverating. That means every few seconds, he asks to review expectations again. And again.

”There’s only one winner, but every participant receives a keychain,” he says, his eyes looking hopeful.

”Right. A chess piece ...